When it comes to courting (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital. Ladies often equate “self confidence” with the ability to be successful. While many gentlemen believe that ladies look for successful gentlemen because they’re likely to make more money, that’s simply not true.
While it’s a given, ladies actually look for successful gentlemen because they’re more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a gentleman being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, ladies know that gentlemen who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.
And in a romantic affair that means a gentleman will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most ladies are looking for a gentleman who will be their partner as well as their lover.
Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a lady you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.
When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people – those who have it and others who simply don’t. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be “self confident”, or motivated if you would like to call it.
Take heart in knowing that you’re a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all ladies are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a gentleman who’s confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a romantic affair with them!