The Noble Role of a Muslim Wife: A Spiritual and Moral Responsibility _Based on a Lecture by Shaykh Abou Nãsir | Compiled by Abdulmalik Dolapo Mustapha_ In a time when worldly distractions have crept into our homes, weakening the family structure and draining our spirituality, Shaykh Abou Nãsir delivered a timely and powerful reminder on…
Written by Amina Al-Harbi, social consultant Stubborn women fail in their marriages, and even in their relationships with relatives. Women who lack emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing with people around them, are the biggest failures in their marriages and their lives. Why? She enters into an egoistic tug of war with her husband, and…
Genotype and Marriage Compatibility One important question that some people ask regarding filling their profile details during the matchmaking process is “Why do I need to reveal my genotype when I’m a Muslim and I’m very healthy? Is it a Sunnah requirement?” Surprisingly, some even do not know their genotype until when asked to fill…
Every woman desires to be the best wife in the world while ever man wants the best wife in the world. So what qualities should a good wife have? Listen: Most couples fight because both parties just listen for the sake of replying. You don’t need to reply all the time. Be the wife that…
MAY ALLAH GUIDE THEM TO ISLAM I saw a message on Twitter from a certain Maureen Bahema earlier today, Friday 29th Sha’aban, 1446H, which reads: “When I become a wife, one of my greatest priorities will be to create a home my husband can’t wait to return to, a place where he feels deeply respected,…
Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it? He is 72 years old. He has retired from active service. He worked all his life to raise his children. He deprived himself of life’s pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his…
If you observe, some women are advocating for divorce vehemently, and they partly adopt the feminist narrative that men are to blame for women filing for divorce. “80 percent of divorces are initiated by women. Among the religious and educated women, the rate is 90 percent.” To this end, feminists believe women have so been…
My parents divorced when I was thirteen. According to my dad, the issues could have been resolved if they had sat down and talked, but my mom took an entrenched position and left the marriage. One morning, my mom told my dad she was going to visit her family for a week and would return.…
Khadijah (ra) was a successful businesswoman who supported the Prophet (saw) with everything she had. She did not disrespect her husband. She financially supported him so he could preach with all his heart and energy. She was a class, submissive and obedient as a wife, dependent on the husband for homefront growth and good mother…
Have you wondered why women who live outside the continent talk about ‘rights?”’ They are preaching (Western) rights in a marriage as they mean sharing property, custody of children, and the right to exit the marriage. If you observe, they are quick to recommend divorce because it comes with benefit. In the real sense, rights…