The Noble Role of a Muslim Wife: A Spiritual and Moral Responsibility _Based on a Lecture by Shaykh Abou Nãsir | Compiled by Abdulmalik Dolapo Mustapha_ In a time when worldly distractions have crept into our homes, weakening the family structure and draining our spirituality, Shaykh Abou Nãsir delivered a timely and powerful reminder on…
Why must we pass through these long processes just to get a future partner? People often wonder and ask questions, “Why must we pass through these long processes just to get a future partner?”, “Why must we answer more than 50 questions of personality test? Then, we must create profiles filling details about our states…
Every woman desires to be the best wife in the world while ever man wants the best wife in the world. So what qualities should a good wife have? Listen: Most couples fight because both parties just listen for the sake of replying. You don’t need to reply all the time. Be the wife that…
MAY ALLAH GUIDE THEM TO ISLAM I saw a message on Twitter from a certain Maureen Bahema earlier today, Friday 29th Sha’aban, 1446H, which reads: “When I become a wife, one of my greatest priorities will be to create a home my husband can’t wait to return to, a place where he feels deeply respected,…
Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it? He is 72 years old. He has retired from active service. He worked all his life to raise his children. He deprived himself of life’s pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his…
If you observe, some women are advocating for divorce vehemently, and they partly adopt the feminist narrative that men are to blame for women filing for divorce. “80 percent of divorces are initiated by women. Among the religious and educated women, the rate is 90 percent.” To this end, feminists believe women have so been…
My parents divorced when I was thirteen. According to my dad, the issues could have been resolved if they had sat down and talked, but my mom took an entrenched position and left the marriage. One morning, my mom told my dad she was going to visit her family for a week and would return.…
Khadijah (ra) was a successful businesswoman who supported the Prophet (saw) with everything she had. She did not disrespect her husband. She financially supported him so he could preach with all his heart and energy. She was a class, submissive and obedient as a wife, dependent on the husband for homefront growth and good mother…
Advice for Fathers with their Children By Shaykhul –Islaam Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah Rahimullaah* _Ibn Qayyim aj-Jawzeeyah (d.751 A.H.) -Rahimullaah- said:_ Allaah’s advice for fathers with their children precedes advice for children with their fathers. So whoever was careless and negligent of educating his son, and leaves off benefiting him and leaving him useless, then he…
The following are suggestions and advices for serious men women want to remain romantic to their wives. 1. Initiate affection – Don’t wait for your wife to make the first move. Hug her, kiss her, and hold her hand without waiting for any special occasion. 2. Compliment her – Always tell your wife how beautiful…